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5 Dating Mistakes That Men Make With Women

Writtenby Michael Webb

Great women are hard to find. So when you do find
one, don’t ruin your chances by making these deadly
mistakes. Remember, attractive women have dated a
lot of men so they know what’s going on. The
result? They’ll disappear before you realize you’ve
done anything wrong.

Here are 5 things that many men do that blow their
chances with their girlfriend, and how to avoid

Mistake #1: Sharing your feelings with her too

When you announce that you love her, you lose the
mystery, the magic and the chase. Remember that the
early stages of dating should always remain casual.
Only after you get to know each other really well
should you pursue anything further. It’s also worth
mentioning that you can’t logically convince
someone to fall in love with you either. Falling in
love is a process that happens outside the
conscious mind ­ remember that. Which brings me to…

Mistake #2: Trying to push it too far too soon

It’s natural to wonder about your future together
but remember, if you start talking about marriage
after only 12 months, you could ruin your chances
to take things further. Just because you like a
particular girl doesn’t mean you should rush things
any faster than they should naturally progress.
Think about your friends and how the natural
progress of friendship happens. Rarely do you meet
someone and feel eager to become best buddies over
night. As a general rule: slower is better.

Mistake #3: Being too available

You might think “saying you’re busy” is playing a
mind game or being manipulative. Well let me tell
you something: everything you do is manipulation.
We always act a certain way to try and achieve a
certain outcome. The best way to come across
naturally is to ACTUALLY BE BUSY. Get involved in
life and don’t make your new girlfriend the center
of your attention. This is simply a reminder to be
who you were before you met the girl of your dreams
and continue to be that person, rather than use
trickery. Remember that your busy, interesting and
fun life only has so much time for her, no matter
how much you like her. And remember, women love a
challenge and mystery, so this actually works in
your favor.

Mistake #4: Not being yourself / Seeking approval

Women love confident men with a strong sense of
self-worth. Unfortunately, guys often try to guess
how the woman wants them to act and try to
accommodate her mold, which leaves very little room
for your own personality to shine. Be comfortable
being you. Showing that you’re not scared to be
yourself is very attractive and very refreshing for

Mistake #5: Buying gifts

While buying gifts “looks” like a nice gesture, the
underlying message is, “I want you to like me, so
here’s this expensive thing.” Don’t do it. Gifts
are for couples in long term relationships. Buying
them too early can have the opposite effect to what
you want.

So there you have it. The 5 big mistakes that guys
make while they’re dating women. Avoid these
mistakes and you’ll dramatically increase the
chances of succeeding with her.

About the Author:

Michael Webb's latest book, "Getting Her Back… For
Good" provides you with a step-by-step plan to help
heal relationships, prevent a breakup and how to
get her back if she dumps you. For all the details,

Getting Her Back… For Good - Book Review

Whether you want to get your girl back or you're just worried that she may leave one day, getting the right advice is important. So how does Michael Webb's new “Getting Her Back… For Good” book compare to the rest? Let's find out…

Most “win her back” books use jealously, trickery and a “whatever it takes” mentality to hide or mask what went wrong in the first place, or to create the illusion of change instead of the reality of it.
Which means, even if you DO get her back, it won't last!
Getting Her Back… For Good is NOT about shallow manipulation or obvious trickery. Rather, this book teaches you how to become a better YOU so she'll want you back.
The book explains that winning her back has much more to do with your character, with the very fabric of who you are, than it does with what you did or what you wear or who you hang out with.

And the content? Upon first glance I was very pleased with the content. The book started off with the most important topic of all: Do you REALLY REALLY REALLY want her back? 

The book tends to cover certain topics several times throughout the book obviously because of the sheer importance it possesses. One thing I really enjoyed about this book was the “slap in your face” style of writing. It works because, chances are, most guys have no idea why their women left them. They need a 'in your face' approach to get through to them. 

Also, rather than covering all the material step-by-step, the book focus 90% of its attention on improving yourself and that you must be willing to change.

Love that this book is FOR MEN ONLY. Most of these books are NOT gender specific, somehow assuming that men and women are exactly the same, which of course is silly. The strategies for getting back a man vs. a woman are very different. 

So is the book perfect? No.

While using canned speeches would work against your efforts by making your ex suspicious, it still would have been nice to see some examples in this book to help paint a better picture. Also, some examples on how to make that first contact would have been nice.

However, all in all, this is still the best “getting the love of your life back” book we've seen. Highly recommend it to any man who wants his sweetheart back, or is having relationship trouble, or is just worried that she may leave him one day and wants to prevent it. 

The LUVebooks.com Team