  Some Tips To Keep The Spice In The Relationship so he will stick around: 5 Dating Mistakes That Women Occasionally Make With Men Written by Michael Webb Great men are hard to find. So when you find one, don’t ruin your chances by making these deadly mistakes. Remember, attractive men have dated a lot of women so they know what’s going on. The result? They’ll disappear before you realize you’ve done anything wrong. Here are 5 things that many women do that blow their chances with their boyfriend, and how to avoid them. Mistake #1: Sharing your feelings with him too early Men love their freedom and independence no mysteries there! So when you announce that you love him, it often sets off a trigger that you might be one of those “clingy types.” Remember that the early stages of dating should always remain casual. Only after you get to know each other really well should you pursue anything further. It’s also worth mentioning that you can’t logically convince someone to fall in love with you. Falling in love is a process that happens outside the conscious mind remember that. Which brings me to… Mistake #2: Trying to push it too far too soon It’s natural to wonder about the nature of your relationship, “Does he want more? Or is this just a fling?” But remember, if you start talking about marriage after only 12 months, you could ruin your chances to take things further. And if you don’t live together, cooking dinner or doing his laundry isn’t a good idea. A nice meal once in a while is okay, but don’t make it a regular thing. Yes, it’s true, many men are scared of commitment; but just because they don’t want it now, doesn’t mean they don’t want to settle down. They just need time. Mistake #3: Being too available You might think this is playing a mind game or being manipulative, but putting your best side forward is also manipulative. Why? Because it’s done to get a desirable outcome. This is simply a reminder to be who you were before you met the man and continue to be that person, rather than use trickery. Remember that your busy, interesting and fun life only has so much time for him, no matter how much you like him. And remember, men love a challenge, so this actually works in your favor. Mistake #4: Not being yourself Men love confident women with a strong sense of self-worth. Unfortunately, women often try to guess how the man wants them to act and try to accommodate his mold, which leaves very little room for your own personality to shine. (And yes, men do this too.) In other words, they love her strength. It’s very attractive. Mistake #5: Appealing to his sexual side too much Believe it or not, it’s NOT make-up, dyed hair, pretty clothes or even nice shoes that attract men, not into a successful long-term relationships anyway! While “looks” is the obvious factor that seems to get an instant response from men, long-term success comes with finding a man who admires and respects you regardless of your exterior. If your man only likes you for your looks, then he doesn’t really love you. So there you have it. The 5 big mistakes that women make while they’re dating men. Avoid these mistakes and you’ll dramatically increase the chances of succeeding with him. About the Author: Michael Webb's latest book, "Getting Him Back" provides you with a step-by-step plan to get your ex back, help heal relationships and even prevent a breakup. For all the details, visit http://URCBIDHERE.loverback.hop.clickbank.net About the Author: Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "Sex All Around The House - Using Everyday Household Items To Spice Up Your Sex Life," helping you get in the mood, prolong the passion and create totally new sensations. Handpicked from over 1500 tips. To read more, visit: Sex All Around The House - Book Review We all need to spice up our lovemaking at one time or another. In fact, it's very important to the well being of your relationship! However, with so many lovemaking books out there, does Michael Webb's latest addition to his lovemaking collection size up and stand out from the crowd? Let's find out… The Oprah expert's latest book called “Sex All Around The House” takes a very different turn for ways to spice up your lovemaking. Rather than talking about positions, techniques and locations, this book focuses on how everyday household items - yes, the ones already laying around your house - can be used to spice things up. On first glance, we were a little hesitant of the idea of using things from the house… I mean how many could there possibly be? Ice, oils, candles? Come on! However, we were actually surprised by the amount of unique and wonderful things you can use, and we quote, “to get your partner's engine revving.” Want to hear some more? Get frisky in a sleeping bag, fun and challenging! Wear nothing but an apron to cook a meal and surprise your partner - great turn-on, especially for men. Play a sexy game using an MP3 player where you each have an earpiece and have to make love without it falling out - including changing positions and giving oral - playable with or without sexy 'penalties.' There was even one about wearing earplugs! Everyone knows you can heighten sound and touch by blindfolding, but almost no one thinks about trying earplugs to block out sound from your steamy passion. Nice idea to heighten touch and visual sense and create a totally new experience. Was also surprised to discover that some of these items can be used to make men last longer and even an item that makes some adventurous positions possible. Nice addition! So as you can see, this book actually has some fantastic and exciting ideas you can use to spice up any lovemaking, no matter how fiery it already is. And best of all, because toys are so expensive, you'll save lots of money (and lots of embarrassment) by using the items you already have around the house. And were there any downsides? Yes. The book could have had a few more ideas, considering you won't like all of them (no one will like all of them!) but there are definitely enough to keep things VERY happy. :D All in all, this is a great resource that you'll wonder how you did without. Whether you want to add more fire, perform better in bed or just have more fun, you'll find many tips and ideas to make it happen. To learn more, visit:http://6f315dvm10dlv9tdphra1txdbj.hop.clickbank.net/ All The Best...The LUVebooks.com Team |
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